Text Messages: Is Your Child A Victim of Textual Harassment?

Here’s a new term you’re certain to hear more about: “Textual Harassment.” It refers to incessant texting, sometimes to the point of hundreds of text messages a day. In certain cases, textual harassment could be considered cyber-bullying, and there’s a chance that sexting (exchanging sexually charged photos, or sexually charged text messages) may be occurring as well.

Parents should be aware of the warning signs which include excessive use of a cell phone (even at all hours of the night), controlling or possessive text messages, and inappropriate age differences (e.g.: If a 25-year-old is text messaging your 14-year-old).

Responsible parents should learn all about technology and keep up with the latest tech trends. Visit Facebook, Twitter and MySpace, and understand how each social networking site works. Control your child’s text messages by blocking them, or setting limits on how many they can send.

If you suspect your child is being textually harassed:

-          Block the person on your child’s mobile device.

-          Keep a paper trail or digital record of the threats.

-          Be sure your child avoids sharing personal information or photos online.

-          Tell someone or report it to the police.

-          Have a conversation with your child about appropriate vs. inappropriate digital behavior.

To view a video segment about this topic from this week’s “The Early Show,” click here.